Well, I have been very busy. I still have not been able to get the Flash Comm server to work properly. It only seems to work when accessed from the local network. Even though the URI is pointing to an external server. I have allowed the Firewall and router to let traffic through on port 1935 and everything else. I also thought of doing a System.allowdomain on the external server, but no luck. On the other hand, I have not given it much of my time either.
In any case, if anyone knows, or has had this much trouble setting up FlashComm, please drop me a message.